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This language can offend others and also caused you not to be hired, not to be promoted, and to be fired from your job.

Sexism

Sexism is the most difficult bias to avoid, in part, because of the convention of using man or men and he or his to refer to either sex. Other, more disrespectful conventions include giving descriptions of women in terms of age and appearance while describing men in terms of accomplishments.

Replacing Man or Men
Man traditionally referred to a male or to a human in general. Using man to refer to a human is often thought to be slighting of women

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mankind, man human beings, humans, humankind, humanity, people, society, men and women
   
man-made synthetic, artificial
   
man in the street average person, ordinary person
   

 

Using Gender-Neutral Terms for Occupations Positions, and Roles
Terms that specify a particular sex can unnecessarily perpetuate certain stereotypes when used generically

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anchorman anchor
   
bellman, bellboy bellhop
   
businessman businessperson, executive, manger, business owner, retailer
   
chairman chair, chairperson
   
cleaning lady, girl, maid, housecleaner, housekeeper, cleaning person, office cleaner
   
clergyman member of the clergy, rabbi, priest
   
clergymen the clergy
   
fireman firefighter
   
forefather ancestor
   
girl/gal Friday assistant
   
housewife homemaker
   
insurance man insurance agent
   
layman layperson, nonspecialist, nonprofessional
   
mailman postman mail or letter carrier
   
policeman police officer or law enforcement officer
   

salesman, saleswoman, saleslady, salesgirl

salesperson, sales representative, sales associate, clerk
   
spokesman spokesperson, representative
   
stewardess, steward flight attendant
   
weatherman weather reporter, weathercaster, meteorologist
   
workman worker
   
actress actor
   

Replacing the Pronoun He
Like man, the generic use of he can be seen to exclude women.

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when a driver approaches a red light, he must prepare to stop. When drivers approach a red light, they must prepare to stop.
   
When a driver approaches a red light, he or she must prepare to stop. When a driver approaches a red light, a driver must prepare to stop.
   

Referring to members of both sexes with parallel names, titles, or descriptions
Don't be inconsistent unless you are trying to make a specific point.

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men and ladies

men and women,
ladies and gentlemen

   
Betty Schmidt, an attractive 49-year-old physician, and her husband, Alan Schmidt, a noted editor Betty Schmidt, a physician, and her husband, Alan Schmidt, an editor
   
Mr. David Kim and Mrs. Betty Harrow Mr. David Kim and Ms. Betty Harrow (unless Mrs. is her known preference)
   
man and wife husband and wife
   
Dear Sir: Dear Sir/Madam:
Dear Madam or Sir:
To whom it may concern:
   
Mrs. Smith and
President Jones
Governor Smith and President Jones
   


Race, Ethnicity, and National Origin

Some words and phrases that refer to racial and ethnic groups are clearly offensive. Other word (e.g., Oriental, colored) are outdated or inaccurate. Hispanic is generally accepted as a broad term for Spanish-speaking people of the Western Hemisphere, but more specific terms (Latino, Mexican American) are also acceptable and in some cases preferred.

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Negro, colored,
Afro-American

black, African-American (generally preferred to Afro-American)
   
Oriental,
Asiatic
Asian, or more specific designation such as Pacific Islander, Chinese American, Korean
   
Indian

Indian properly refers to people who live in or come from India.

American Indian, Native American, and more specific designations (Chinook, Hopi) are usually preferred when referring to the native peoples of the Western hemisphere

   
Eskimo Inuit, Alaska Natives
   
native (n.) native peoples, early inhabitants, aboriginal peoples (but not aborigines)
   

Age

The concept of aging is changing as people are living longer and more active lives. Be aware of word choices that reinforce stereotypes (decrepit, senile) and avoid mentioning age unless it is relevant.

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elderly, aged, old, geriatric, the elderly, the aged older persons, senior citizen(s), older people, seniors
   

Avoiding Depersonalization of Persons with Disabilities or illnesses

Terminology that emphasizes the person rather than the disability is generally preferred. Handicap is used to refer to the environmental barrier that affects the person. (Stairs handicap a person who uses a wheelchair.) While words such as crazy, demented, and insane are used in facetious or informal contexts, these terms are not used to describe people with clinical diagnoses of mental illness. The euphemisms challenged, differently able, and special are preferred by some people, but are often ridiculed and are best avoided.

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Mongoloid person with Down syndrome
   
wheelchair-bound person who uses a wheelchair
   
AIDS sufferer,
person afflicted with AIDS,
AIDS victim
person living with AIDS, P.W.A., HIV + (one who tests positive for HIV but does not show symptoms of AIDS
   
polo victim has/had polio
   
the handicapped,
the disabled,
crippled
persons with disabilities or person who uses crutches or more specific description
   
deaf-mute,
deaf and dumb
deaf person
   

Avoiding Patronizing or Demeaning Expressions

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girls (when referring to adult women),
the fair sex
women
   
sweetie, dear,
dearie, honey
(usually not appropriate with strangers or in public situations)
   
old maid,
bachelorette
spinster
single woman, woman, divorced woman (but only if one would specify "divorced man" in the same context)
   
the little woman,
old lady,
ball and chain
wife
   
boy (when referring to or addressing an adult man) man, sir
   

Avoiding Language That Excludes or Unnecessarily Emphasizes Differences

References to age, sex, religion, race, and the like should be included only if they are relevant.

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lawyers and their wives lawyers and their spouses
   
a secretary and her boss a secretary and boss, a secretary and his or her boss
   
the male nurse the nurse
   
Arab man denies assault charge Man denies assault charge
   
the articulate black student the articulate student
   
Marie Curie was a great woman scientist Marie Curie was a great scientist (unless the intent is to compare her only with other women in the sciences)
   
Christian name given name, personal name, first name
   
Mr. Johnson, the black representative, met with the President today to discuss civil-rights legislation. Mr. Johnson, a member of the Congressional Black Caucus, met with the President today to discuss civil-rights legislation